Tuesday, March 20, 2012

Is this Book the Next "Eat, Pray, Love"?

Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail

Looks like another tale of a woman (adultress no less) divorcing her husband and embarking on a quest to find her own truth. The kicker is I only knew she was an adultress from the headline on HuffPost Women (top headline as I write). In looking at the reviews on Amazon, the author is described as having a destroyed marriage, divorced her husband, or just divorced, it doesn't use such a blatant and non PC term like "adultress".  The Amazon reviews make it out like she was a poor, poor thing trapped in marriage until she sought out her own truth.

It looks like this two star Amazon review gets to the heart of things for us:

"....The morals discussed in the book where rather disappointing to say the least and upsetting as it was unexpected. I was not anticipating the author's gross discriptions of wanting to have sex with her dying mother's male nurse and what she imagined his penis would feel like. That does not cover the rest of her affairs, her pot smoking, heroin use, or hitchhiking. If that is what you are looking for, it is a great story but I found it increadibly disappointing. Not recommended for anyone younger than adult due to disturbing content."

 

Soft and Sweet, Strong and Steady

The song,"Honey Bee" by Blake Shelton had some lyrics that jumped out at me the other day:

"If you'll be my soft and sweet
I'll be your strong and steady
You'll be my glass of wine
I'll be your shot of whiskey
You'll be my sunny day
I'll be your shade tree
You'll be my honeysuckle
I'll be your honey bee"

I like how it implies that a woman must be soft and sweet in order for a man to be her strong and steady. It does not work they other way. Women are soft, pleasant, and dare I say submissive, and in return men are protectors, providers, a rock.  Nowadays men are expected to be strong and steady (where are all the good men?) without women holding up and maintaining their end of the bargain. Roles complement and intertwine.