In reaction to more men living at home, "men sort of thrash around a bit" is the latest expression for those who allegedly refuse to grow up. Charming.“Women mature at a younger age so they are probably more able to hold down a job and pay the rent,” she said. “Men sort of thrash around a bit.”It could easily be suggested that women are so mature that they no longer need men or marriage (and this is suppose to a be good thing). Maturity in our modern world is defined by dependence from needing anyone or anything.In a related article, we learn that only women with low self-esteem would date a man in a hardship situation."I'd also contend that, for a man, living with one's parents doesn't necessarily kill one's dating life, either. Since most women have their own places and many women have low self-esteem, nowadays the number of women who absolutely wouldn't date a man driven by hardship to live at home is dwindling."How the times have changed. A modern woman is not there to support her man in hard times unless she is a woman with low self-esteem. Because clearly a mature woman with high self-esteem, who knows better, with moxie and girl power, would only stay with and support a man during the good times.