Saturday, December 17, 2011

"No Crazy Chicks"

NOTE: I've been away recently tending to family. Just so my readers know--I haven't disappeared and don't plan to. I hope to resume a more regular posting schedule soon, but for now I will just post when I can. Thanks.  Onwards.....


Here is an article about the red flags to look for when looking for a man online. I found this one particularly noteworthy:
"Red Flag: The list of all the things one doesn’t want in a partner. This list often includes the phrase “no crazy chicks.”
What It Means: I’m not so stable myself.

"Most online dating sites have a “what you’re looking for” section. If someone uses that section as an opportunity to vent about everything they hate, they are a bad-finder who will sniff out all of your faults. The worst among these are the “no crazies!” men. Dudes who are positive that bitches be crazy are also dudes who are willing to write off anything you say as “insane” if it’s something they don’t want to hear. They’re convinced that much of the female population is mentally unstable because they have on occasion run into females who believe they are entitled to their own thoughts, opinions, and rights—and exercise the right not to be interested in No Crazies guy. If you are a reasonably intelligent woman with some amount of self-esteem, you will eventually be branded as “crazy” by No Crazies Guy. Because, frankly, No Crazies Guy is crazy. See also: Men who refer to women as “females.”
To any observant reader it will be clear this is a classic deflection back to men. It offends women to think  they have the possibility of being crazy or that even one of their sisters was crazy at one point, so to make them feel better it is easier to rationalize that crazy chicks aren't really the problem--the problem of course lies with men.  If men say they don't want crazy chicks, then they don't want crazy chicks--period. Leave it to modern women to complicate a simple statement. If a woman posts and ad saying "no crazy guys" are we too also infer that what that really means is that she is not so stable herself. Something tells me it doesn't also work that way.

19 comments:

MarkyMark said...

Women don't like guys refusing crazy chicks, because that strongly implies imperfection. Today's empowered princess is perfect, and don't you dare say otherwise, Man!

Jennifer said...

Whoa, they lost me when they said, "They’re convinced that much of the female population is mentally unstable because they have on occasion run into females who believe they are entitled to their own thoughts, opinions, and rights". Lady, come ON. You're not describing a guy there, you're describing a boogeyman.

Simon Grey said...

"It offends women to think they have the possibility of being crazy or that even one of their sisters was crazy at one point, so to make them feel better it is easier to rationalize that crazy chicks aren't really the problem..."

The simple, observable fact of the matter, though, is that roughly 25% of women meet the criteria for being considered crazy. As such, it is simply illogical to act like no woman could ever be considered crazy.

Jack said...

I think the author means that "no crazy chicks" is a rude and condescending way of writing. It says a lot about the man who wrote it.

There are ways of weeding out the crazies, but saying "no crazy chicks" is an angry, rude thing to say. Instead, be grateful for the women you have a chance to meet, and then kindly drop the ones with "crazy" qualities--without using ugly words.

We are commanded to love our neighbors. A man who would use the term "crazy chicks" shows himself to be ungodly and unChristian.

Jennifer said...

That's very true, Jack, but for many men, their words are legitimate and don't mean to refer to most women.

MarkyMark said...

We are commanded to love our neighbors. A man who would use the term "crazy chicks" shows himself to be ungodly and unChristian.

Love our neighbors, yes. Overlook their faults, particularly when they'll DIRECTLY IMPACT us, no. A man who says 'no crazy chicks' doesn't show himself to be ungodly or unchristian; he shows himself to be a discerning, intelligent man who knows it's best to avoid trouble BEFORE it reaches you or gets anywhere close to you...

Jack said...

Well, as I said earlier, there are ways to protect oneself from "crazy chicks" without being ugly and unmanly.

I know, I have done it myself. Never used the phrase "crazy chicks" and have been happy in relationships with women.

Rmaxd said...

Women are crazy, precisely because theyre not following their biology


& they're crazy precisely because of the concept of being in love,

which effectively drives them nuts, feeling insanely insecure & inferior, when they cant find a man who pushes her biological buttons

In the same way her thugs used to when she was younger ...

Rmaxd said...

shouldve added ...

Women are crazy, precisely because theyre not following their biology & raising a large family

A 2 child family, is NOT a family, you cannot build a viable traditional wholesome community with morals & ethics, necessary to support a christian culture with just 2 child families

2 child families decimated the christian social fabric, which relied on large nuclear families creating the traditional social network, of fathers, uncles, aunts, & relatives for a traditional culture to exist in the first place

2 Child families replaced, the nuclear family with hedonism, as the resulting small families & isolated relatives, devolved into hedonism, with no nuclear families to keep isolated families together

Take The Red Pill said...

"Red Flag: The list of all the things one doesn’t want in a partner. This list often includes the phrase “no crazy chicks.”
What It Means: I’m not so stable myself."

And I'm sure that the same logic applies to females when a female's ad uses the phrase: "No jerks or losers"?

Jennifer said...

It's not half so simple, Rmaxd. In fact, they ARE following their biology, by fulfilling sexual urges. That's what makes them unhappy.

Jack said...

"And I'm sure that the same logic applies to females when a female's ad uses the phrase: "No jerks or losers"?"

Absolutely! A woman who uses a phrase like that is being rude and condescending, same as a guy.

Anonymous said...

I wrote several years ago on DGM-2 that collectively American women are clinically insane. I very clearly defined my terms. Another name for insane is psychotic, which means incapable of grasping reality. Yep, that's AW.

Examples:

They believe divorce is about bad men leaving faithful, loving wives for other women.

They believe women receive less pay for the same exact work.

They believe women were historically exploited and subjugated.

They believe domestic violence is about violent, brutal men battering sweet, faithful wives.

They believe child abuse is something men do to children.

I could write a book on all the unreal things most AW believe, but that is enough.

Anonymous age 69

Jennifer said...

"They believe women receive less pay for the same exact work.

They believe women were historically exploited and subjugated."

The latter has been true, quite a bit, more in some countries than others. The former is legally not permissable, but individually can still occur.

Anonymous said...

Thanks, so much, Jennifer, for proving my point. I have found for many years I get more help from women who disagree with me than anyone else.

You almost certainly have never lived in the countries you mean long enough to know what really happens. Your information comes via the feminist communications link.

In all known societies, assets are transferred directly from men to woman, which people like you view as female slavery. Hohoho hahaha heehee.

A member of my own family lives in a Muslim nation. Women by the Koran dominate the households. it is only when they go the street they lose control and have to show respect for men. What a horrid fate.

Jennifer, you have no clue. You are a feminist 100%.

Anonymous age 69

Rmaxd said...

Anon 69 whats DGM-2?

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Jennifer said...

You don't have to be feminist to know the clear and simple truth. The idea that every Muslim country just treats women as sweetly as cupcakes? There's an asinine idea worthy of mockery indeed, contradicted by quite conservative sources, in fact, from the national news to some of the most patriarchal people I know. Yes what a horrid state, showing men respect in the streets, by shrouding every inch of their bodies or suffering arrest at best. Or being shot under Taliban rule if they're not virgins, or brutalized if they're seen with boys unrelated to them, or legally beaten. Or sold as brides at the age of nine. Yes, because a stranger online tells me that a single relative lives in one of many Muslim countries jolly and free, it must mean that every other Eastern country is just the same. Women have just been treasured throughout all time, even in 1st world countries that denied them property rights or the vote, or jobs outside the house. Many women had wonderful, amazing lives in history with good men, but to say society never repressed them is asinine. Perhaps the Indian women burned on their husbands' piers, the Hebrew women executed if they didn't scream loudly enough during rape in a city, the genitally-mutilated young girls in Africa, would feel a little differently. Hell, take a look at Justin's blog, "The Truth will set You Free", on the left of Laura's homepage, to see how protected women were in history.